Unwlling vs Willing to communicate
I want to talk to you about our upcoming "Communication Skills" Workshop, part of the "Life Skills" Workshop.
One topic to talk about is: If communication is so simple and so available why do we have so much trouble communicating?
What makes it hard to create a good relationship?
Well, one thing I learned is that it is not so much about not knowing how to communicate, but being unwilling to communicate.
Yes "unwillingness to communicate" is at the root of communication problems, problems communicating.
And at the bottom of that, there are fixed ideas, supported by feelings of hatred.
Making you feel bad.
And part of building your communication skills is to be able to handle those negative feelings. Just think for a moment. What happens when somebody is not willing to listen to you?
How do you feel about it?
What happens when somebody is not willing to communicate back to you?
How do you feel about it?
We start to build negative feelings against that other person.
Unless they say: "I'm sorry I didn't communicate back to you" or "I'm sorry I didn't pay attention to you"
Communication becomes a therapy when somebody becomes willing communicate back to you.
The feeling of hatred turns into a feeling of love, when true willingness is there.
All right my friends see you at the "Communication Skills" Workshop.
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