Life Skills Workshop

 Just think for a moment about...  What helps to create a good relationship? Have you ever wondered how to achieve complete, full understanding? Can you fix a relationship with communication alone? Can you fix a relationship with love alone? Can you fix a relationship trying to see the other person's viewpoint?  Having the same viewpoint? Having another viewpoint? or Having the opposite viewpoint? Can you fix a relationship trying to agree with somebody? What happens if you don't master one or any of these skills?  Can you tell of a time when you were feeling good about these skills and created good relationships? This message is for those who want to improve their Relationships Skills in our next Life Skills Workshop! ----- Click here to watch the video    ***** Check out this Meetup event from "Secrets of Happy Relationships and Family Life" Click here to find out about the "Life Skills Workshop"

I want to talk to you about our upcoming "Communication Skills" Workshop, part of the "Life Skills" Workshop.  One topic to talk about is: If communication is so simple and so available why do we have so much trouble communicating?  What makes it hard to create a good relationship?  Well, one thing I learned is that it is not so much about not knowing how to communicate, but being unwilling to communicate.  Yes "unwillingness to communicate" is at the root of communication problems, problems communicating.  And at the bottom of that, there are fixed ideas, supported by feelings of hatred.  Making you feel bad.  And part of building your communication skills is to be able to handle those negative feelings. Just think for a moment. What happens when somebody is not willing to listen to you?  How do you feel about it?  What happens when somebody is not willing to communicate back to you?  How do you feel about it?  We start to build ne...

I want to talk to you about communication skills, or lack of communication skills.  Have you ever met somebody who wasn't comfortable being in front of somebody else and they were not able to communicate well?  They are not just comfortable being in that position, in that space.  Maybe they have like: negative thoughts, or they are overthinking too much,or their mind is blank, they don't see anything they cannot think anything, or they have nervous motions, or playing tunes in their mind, or they try to be funny, or they're feeling anger, or they are afraid, or they are shy, they are timid. They're not just being there comfortably.  Well, that basically shows their communication skills are not very good.  Have you ever wondered why people get their minds stuck watching videos on the TV, on the internet, on their cell phone? Fortunately that's not everybody. Advanced technological gadgets like: TV, radio, Walkman's, iPods, cell phones, internet.  They don't ...

I want to share with you my story about my communication skills or lack of communication skills. As a child, like most children, I was gettng easy love and admiration from my parents, from my family. I was enjoying an easy and happy childhood. Then growing out of that safe environment, you know at the end of elementary school, getting into High School. I find that others don't love me at all. I was getting "anger" from some, even "hate" from others. I started wondering why some ar angry at me? Why some hate me? Those were the puberty years.  Life became difficult and complicated.  I stopped being a happy child. I became a troubled teenager.  Life became serious. I was unable to create the perfect relationship.  Unwanted girls wanted to have a relationship. Wanted girls didn't want to have a relationship. That all affected my life skills, my communication skills. My life became miserable. So I started a Journey to find the solution to create great relationshi...

Everything starts with a condition. Feeling you don’t like your life conditions? or do you need to improve your life conditions? - Feeling the need for change? ***** Following are quotes from the “Fundamentals of Thought” book by L. Ron Hubbard Click here to get it from Bridge Publication, Inc. Chapter TWO: THE CYCLE-OF-ACTION Cycle = a span of time with a beginning and an end.  Page 21,1 The MOST FUNDAMENTAL idea in Scientology is called the CYCLE-OF-ACTION. Page 22,1 … The cycle-of-action is an apparency as follows:  CREATE, then SURVIVE, then DESTRUCTION Chapter THREE: THE CONDITIONS OF EXISTENCE Page 31,1 THERE ARE THREE CONDITIONS-OF-EXISTENCE. There three conditions comprise (make up, constitute) life. They are BE, DO and HAVE. The first condition of existence is BEING. Page 32,1 The second condition of existence is DOING. Page 32,3 The third condition of existence is HAVINGNESS. Page 32,5 The game of life demands that one assumes a beingness in order to accomplish ...

Raised by single Mother - she was cheerful, outgoing - great childhood - lots of love   Growing out of own freewill, no restrictions - back from school - do homework, play games, sports, parties, hang out with friends  Love watching movies/TV series of: Superheroes - Suspense series like: Alfred Hitchcok, Step Beyond - Kung-fu TV series  Lots of ignorance = lots of irresponsibility = fun! Mid 1960’s Beat Generation changing the world - General acceptance of Drugs and Addiction took over I was a teens (Puberty) - my safe bubble cracks - become vulnerable to others - youngster facing obligations, responsibilities  Become more shy - introverted - my mind was blank - couldn’t think - overthinking  Build up confusion - losing freedom - feeling trapped - life becomes serious!  Wishing stability, harmony, happiness, prosperity  Grew up Christian Roman Catholic family - studied bible - agreed with God = Love - remedy for sins / sinful misbehavior  Je...

 Following is the framework for the “LIfe Skills Workshop”  1. This workshop is to help attendees to practice the various Life Skills they learned. 2. Our purpose is to create successful people. So be willing to help and to accept help. 3. If you accept the study assignment, do it and then try to master the skills. 4. As you move along in life, use your skills to improve conditions.  5. Share your successes or failures or challenges. Therefore attendees will benefit more after they have some knowledge about what is going to be practiced in the workshop. And that’s why I posted a video talking about the “Life Conditions” and lightly going over the Life Skills to handle conditions. That was meant to prepare you for the first workshop, and those key Life Skills were taken out of the book: “The Fundamentals of Thought” by L. Ron Hubbard, which you can study more in-depth. Here is the link to it: "The Fundamentals of Thought"   ***** Check out this Meetup event from "Secr...

Success applying Study Technology I run an audio-video company which handles mostly corporate events.  The audio-video business is centered around technology. This technology is constantly changing and to be competitive you must keep up with the new developments. One of the barriers to understanding the technology is the constant use of new words and abbreviations.  I found from the technology of How to Study in Scientology that a key barrier to understanding is going past words or symbols you do not understand. I have found this to be extremely applicable to my industry. By looking up every word and new acronym (a word formed from the initial letters of other words) that gets introduced into product information I am able to not only understand what these new developments are all about but actually use them if they are useful and applicable to what we do. I also wrote down the basics of what an audio-visual technician needs to know, including defining the key words in the subj...

 Adopting Google's tagline: “To everyone who sees not what the world is but what it can be.” Watch video: Year in Search 2022, from google: https://youtu.be/4WXs3sKu41I   Everything starts with a condition! And we always need to start, change or stop a condition - just analyze this in your own life. It has a lot to do with Be-Do-Have.  And all connected to one product. What is your final production? What is your desirable product? What do you want to be? What do you want to do? What do you want to have? What are you having trouble starting? What are you having trouble changing? What are you having trouble having?  What haven’t you been able to start? Or not able to change? Or not able to have?  What keeps you awake, making you anxious, afraid or worried about life? What are you able to accomplish? What is your production? What is the quality of your production? Accordingly, you are going to be able to attract people, customers, money, and prosperity.  ...

Life skills are the foundation to acquire professional skills. Life Skills are THE skills that allow you to master your own professional skills, the ones that give you money, satisfaction and happiness. If your Life Skills are weak, so your professional skills are weak, and you keep struggling through life. If you are poor on Life Skills, you are poor on money, you are poor on relationships and so on. If you are productive, making a good income and living a lifestyle of your own choice, congratulations!  You’ve made it this far, you already master some good life and professional skills. Can you imagine what your professional life would be like, if you just keep on being successful? Now, what is it going to take to keep being successful? How are you going to challenge yourself?  Or are you going to do it alone? It is not recommended, so you better join a group of like minded individuals who are going to help you to advance! Click here to watch the video  ***** Check out th...

This message is to everyone who sees not what the world is but what it can be. We wish you have happy new year resolutions! Mind you, a resolution is “A decision to do or not to do something” That’s the start part of the whole wish. If you keep the decision to do it no matter what, you will make it. Although, the “no matter what” may require some real good skills. Or are you really going to make it with no or poor skills?  And are you going to make it alone? So, what is it going to take, to complete the whole wish? The “Life Skills Workshop” Team will improve your skills, So you can be part of a supportive team. And you can have your full wish before the end of 2023. That’s our purpose!!! Wishing you a Prosperous New Year!  Click here to watch the video ***** Check out this Meetup event from "Secrets of Happy Relationships and Family Life" Click here to find out about the "Life Skills Workshop"